The room.

• Private, not bulletproof. A breach can always happen — assume a post could one day be seen, and share nothing that would harm you or anyone else if it left.
• Keep it non-personal and non-controversial. Critique ideas, not people.
• Never use what’s said here as leverage over another. The room runs on trust, not advantage.
• Bring something to the table — signal over noise.
• Someone vouched for you. Be the reason they’d do it again.

Not a rulebook — just how we keep the room worth being in.